ARE YOU A JERK? GIVE A CHANCE TO THE NICE GUYS.

ARE YOU A JERK?!
Answer yourself today^^

Ever liked a Guy? Fell in Love and it NEVER WORKED-OUT?
~have you ever thought that maybe he isn't the right one for you?

I'm sure at times both parties have their own story to tell and often we only hear the girls Frustrations or rather Complains about the guy she likes;That he does nothing about it.

Now its the time for the girls to sit back, relax, and LISTEN to the guys.. Not all of us are JERKS!!
i'm sure that they are many nice guys out there too.. ~no doubt bout it~

***Guy's point of view ****

when it actually happens (A girl meets a nice guy) 99% of girls don't realize it 'til it is too late

and that guy who did it is so frustrated that he has moved on to someone who

will take notice. ~He's only tryin to get your attention~

From a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room (which actually got your attention) ~perhaps he was too handsome or whatever~
and you jump up and tackle him without even introducing us, yeah, it PISSES us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without

even Acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till he morning. ~at times we do get jealous no doubt~

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we Freaking MEAN it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.We'll stop trying to convince you. ~We mean what we say~
The Sexiest thing about a girl is Confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me, GO ahead.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open.

Take Advantage of the mood im in.

LET US PAY FOR YOU! DON'T 'FEEL BAD'

We enjoy doing it. ~at times we just love to~

It's expected.

Smile and say 'thank you.'

Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more Impressed.

You DON'T have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel that you

need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We LIKE/LOVE you for WHO YOU ARE and not WHAT YOU ARE!!

Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. ~haha just a random thought~ THe big shirt draggin all over the floor ^^

Or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

Don't take everything we say seriously.~ as in don't la so "Siu Hei"
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. X)

See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

STOP using magazines/media as your BIBLE . ~if you are stop it la~ its rather ridiculous~

Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. or how cute William Hung is..

It's boring, and we don't care.

You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word 'Handsome'/'Beautiful'?

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy' or whatever else you can think of. ~I know it may sound a little "perasaan" but it boost a guys ego?? X)~ i think~

On the other hand im not sayin i wouldn't like it ether. ~i better say it before you girls misinterpret it ~




Girls: I cannot stress this enough: IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE.> DITCH HIS SORRY DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS,!!!! (~i hate @#$% up guys like that ~)> AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT !!!!



Someone who will HONOR your morals.

Someone who will make you SMILE when you're at your LOWEST.

Someone who will CARE for you even when you make MISTAKES.

Someone who will LOVE you, no matter how BAD you make them feel.

Someone who will STOP what theyre doing JUST TO LOOK YOU IN THE EYES....and say 'I Love You' ..........AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

"I wrote your name in the sky,
but the wind blew it away.
I wrote your name in the sand,
but the waves washed it away.
I wrote your name in my heart,
and forever it will stay." <3

*****Give the nice guys a chance*****
(Skills required from the past ^^) ~sharing is caring X)~ this is for you guys some tips ^^ lols~

Holdin Hands- Girls : If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times.

Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

Cuddling- Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold.

Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

Movies- Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder

Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her. ~suck the life out of her lols~ hahahaha

Loving each other- Guys : When she tells you she LOves you, LOOK DEEP INTO HER EYES, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And MEAN it. ~don't losse this opportunity~

Laying below the stars- Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat

Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers. Now make a wish about something you would like to happen Between you and your crush....

Guys: NO GRABBING!!! (*if you know what i mean la.. DOn't be so "HAM SAP" la please..*)

Every Guy who isn't a JERK will agree with this!!!

The Magic Of Love

Love is like magic
And it always will be.
For love still remains
Life's sweet mystery!!
Love works in ways
That are wondrous and strange
And there's nothing in life
That love cannot change!!
Love can transform
The most commonplace
Into beauty and splendor
And sweetness and grace.
Love is unselfish,
Understanding and kind,
For it sees with its heart
And not with its mind!!
Love is the answer
That everyone seeks...
Love is the language,
That every heart speaks.
Love can't be bought,
It is priceless and free,
Love, like pure magic,
Is life's sweet mystery!!